An Open Letter to Wanda’s Mother

Dear Wanda’s Mother: Your daughter was nine weeks old when I met her. Her name was Caramel then, but I quickly decided that was too saccharine (I know, you didn’t choose it), and changed it to Wanda: a name I felt more appropriate for the confident, sociable, and strong young lady that I intended to … Continue reading An Open Letter to Wanda’s Mother

Go placidly.

I do not want to be peaceful about this. I am not in the mood to say, “Love will win," and I will not try to tell you that everything will be okay. I am unbelievably angry, and I am incredibly sad. I don't need to tell you why; you know.  But in a few hours, I will … Continue reading Go placidly.

You’ve Heard it Before, I’ll Say it Again: Just Love Yourself Already

While I am usually impressed, even moved, by the writings that Elephant Journal publishes, I must say that Altucher’s (2010) essay, How I lost 30 Pounds through yoga and never saw them again, with embarrassing before picture, gave me pause. Well intentioned and genuine as the author seems, I find the underlying messages of the … Continue reading You’ve Heard it Before, I’ll Say it Again: Just Love Yourself Already